Let’s raise a glass to all the mother’s out there who are taking to the mic for a mother of the bride wedding speech! Traditions are constantly changing and many mums want to deliver a heartfelt speech for their child on their wedding day. If you’re planning on creating a mother of the bride speech, here are a couple of writing tips to help get you started…

• Choose Happy Memories

Every child gets embarrassed by their parent at some point in their lives, but these moments shouldn’t be shared on their wedding day. Opt for positive, happy moments to share with their guests and steer clear of mentioning previous relationships, unfulfilled dreams and unhappy memories. 

• Highlight their Accomplishments

The mother of the bride speech is a great opportunity to share how proud you are of your daughter. Highlight a few accomplishments from their life but be sure to keep it concise. 

• Don’t Feel Pressured to be Funny

Unless you’re naturally talented at delivering funny speeches, adding humour into a speech can be very daunting. Remember, there will be many other members of the wedding party delivering speeches so if you’re not a naturally funny person, don’t feel pressured and keep it honest and true to yourself. We also recommend avoiding inside jokes to ensure the speech is as inclusive as possible. 

• Don’t be Afraid to Cry

Seeing your daughter tie the knot is a very moving moment and your emotions are guaranteed to be high. Don’t be afraid to shed a tear whilst you deliver your speech and make sure you have a tissue to hand.

• Welcome your New In-Law to the Family

No speech would be complete without welcoming your new in-law into the family. Make sure you acknowledge your child’s partner and make it clear that you are happy to be gaining a new family member.

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